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The appearance of the spouse element in your BaZi chart shows the potential of meeting your romantic life partner, wife, or husband.
Ten Gods that Represent Your Spouse Element
To further understand on how to identify these stars or elements, refer to another article ie Identify Spouse Star
|Direct Wealth (DW)
|Life partner or wife for Male
|Indirect Wealth (IW)
|In the absence of DW, IW represents the wife element.
Otherwise, it represents girlfriend before marriage or mistress after marriage for Male
|Direct Officer (DO)
|Life partner or husband for Female
|7 Killing (7K)
|In the absence of DO, 7K represents the husband element.
Otherwise, it represents boyfriend before or after marriage for Female
Which Element Represent Your Spouse
The below table shows the element that represent your spouse in a BaZi chart based on the element of your Day Master.
For example, if your Day Master is Wood, then the Metal element represents your husband for the female, and Earth element represents your wife for the male, and so forth.
As for girlfriend and boyfriend, it depends on whether your self element is Yin or Yang.
1) Female Yin Wood Day Master – husband is Yang Metal / boyfriend is Yin Metal.
2) Male Yin Wood Day Master – wife is Yang Earth / girlfriend is Yin Earth.
|Self Element or
What If You Do Not Have a Spouse Star
If there is no spouse star in your natal chart, then look for the 10-year luck cycle or even yearly.
However, the appearance of this star only stays within the period e.g. 10 years or yearly. But, if the next 10-year luck cycle or the following year shows the appearance of this element, then either is a continuation of the existing relationship, or you will meet someone new.
If there’s none at all, even in the luck cycle, this doesn’t mean you will not be able to meet anyone. If you do meet someone, perhaps not a very fulfilling relationship or one-sided.
Staying in a relationship is a choice, if you think is worth keeping, the only thing you can do is be patience.
What If You Do Have, Where Can You Meet Them
If depends on where the star appears, e.g. if appears in the Year column, then it means from your social circle of friends., if month then your workplace.
Are You Worth Loving
Before judging your potential life partner, you need to be worth loving yourself. Are you able to bring happiness to your other half, do you care for him/her even when they are at their worst time?
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